- Life is a drag.
- What’s the point of anything?
- I’ll never be happy.
Do any of these gloomy thoughts sound familiar? It’s likely they do.
The occasional case of the blues is perfectly normal, but that doesn’t
make dealing with it any easier. If you allow them to, negative thoughts
can fester and lead to serious depression. That’s why it’s important to
take action early to bust yourself out of a slump.
While these suggestions won’t eliminate your problems, they can help
you break a negative thought pattern and stop feeling depressed. If you think you might have a serious mental health problem, don’t hesitate to see a medical professional.
1. Understand the emotional cycle – Life is an
emotional roller coaster. Some days you feel like nothing can stop you.
Other days you feel utterly hopeless. Most of the time you’re somewhere
in between. Understanding the pattern of positive and negative emotions
will help you put your feelings in perspective. Next time you feel down,
just remember that it’s a natural emotion that will inevitably pass.
Knowing that a feeling of depression is only temporary makes it less
dreadful.
2. Spend time with positive people – Nothing affects the way you think and feel more than the people you interact with. Thoughts (both positive and negative) are contagious.
If you are surrounded by negative people, it’s only natural that you’ll
start to think and feel the same way. To improve your outlook on life,
spend time with positive people. Search them out and try to understand
the way they see the world. Chances are their happiness will rub off.
3. Reflect on past success – In the wake of a
colossal failure, it’s easy to forget everything you’ve ever done right.
Take a few minutes to remember your past accomplishments and build
yourself up. What made you successful before? What are your strengths?
Frequently, this exercise will build self confidence, help you figure out what went wrong, and generate ideas for success in the future.
4. Focus on gratitude – It’s human nature to measure ourselves against those ahead of us on the social ladder. Studies have shown
that people care more about being richer than their friends than
actually making more money. When you consider everything good in your
life and compare it to the problems of less fortunate people, the issue
that’s making you depressed won’t seem as serious.
5. Change of scenery – One of the best ways to
change the way you feel is to change your environment. When you get in a
slump, you start to associate your problems with everything around you.
It can get to the point where your environment is a constant reminder
of your problems. This can be a dangerous cycle. The solution is to
change things. Change doesn’t have to be radical. Cleaning up, adding
more lights, or including pleasant decorations can completely change the
mood of a room.
6. Break your routine - Going through the same
routine, day after day, can be monotonous and depressing. It often leads
to getting caught in a rut. To get out of it you need to temporarily
change your routine. If you can, take a day off from work. Do something
you don’t normally have time for or something you’ve never tried. In the
long run, taking a day off every now and then to get out of slump will
make you happier and more productive.
7. Interact with animals and nature – It’s funny
when you consider how humans put so much importance on their own tiny
problems. Animals don’t think this way. A little bird doesn’t mope
around because it isn’t an eagle or because another bird beat it to a
tasty seed. Animals live in the present moment and they show love
unconditionally. Observing and interacting with them will help you get
over your problems.
8. Get moving – As Johnny Cash famously suggested,
“Get a rhythm, when you get the blues.” Moving to a beat makes everyone
feel better. The same is true for movement in general. Hitting the gym
or going for a walk will help you shed the lethargy that comes with
feeling depressed. The more enthusiastic your moments, the better you
will start to feel.
9. Think about the big picture – As Carl Sagan made evident with the Pale Blue Dot,
we’re insignificant creatures living in a vast universe on a tiny
planet. In the long run, everything we do will probably be forgotten.
Some might find this depressing, but it shouldn’t be. It means that all
our problems are illusory. In a million years no one will remember what
you did or didn’t do. What matters is the present moment and enjoying
every second of life that we’re blessed with.
10. Do something to help yourself – Above all, the best way to stop feeling depressed is to take action.
What is your biggest problem? How can you alleviate it? Once you decide
to stop moping and start moving forward you won’t have time to feel
depressed. Action will occupy your mind and give you something to look
forward to. Once you get some results, you’ll build momentum and
positive thinking will keep getting easier.
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